LA 084: How Strong Leaders Handle Rejection and Criticism (And Keep On Keeping On)

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rejection cover.jpgI just returned from a long and exciting trip to Israel where I was reminded that even the very best of us are rejected and criticised.

It seems that it does not matter whether your intentions are to help and serve others. It doesn't matter if you are the kindest, gentlest, most loving and caring person the world has ever seen. You will face rejection. And you will probably face rejection by those you truly would think should be the tribe you can most trust, your own family, your...

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How to hack motivation to make you happier

How to Hack MotivationMotivation is chemistry.

That feeling you call motivation is to do with the dopamine in your brain, specifically the increase in dopamine in your “nucleus accumbens” is the brain’s feedback for predicting rewards. Dopamine is known as a neurochemical of pleasure, and sure, dopamine makes you feel good, so why can we also get a spike of motivation in times of great stress? Indeed, why are some people motivated to jump off suspension bridges? Dopamine is the neurochemical associated with pleasure but actually it's real role is in motivation

Dopamine is the neurochemical...

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How to Get Unstuck

How to Get UnstuckAll through life, Alex has always felt that other people, schoolmates, friends and later colleagues, seemed to have it easier. Dad was never quite satisfied. It was hard to live up to his standards. Aunts and Uncles always knew a cousin who was better, brighter, richer, faster. Alex, like you and me, would like to earn more, be recognized and respected. To enjoy life and have fun. To simply succeed.

Is it really so difficult?

falling short of the mark Is it really so difficult to achieve everything we want...

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LA 083: Fighting Disengagement - Let Your People Thrive

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monster boss running meeting.pngAre you tired of wasting time dealing with workplace drama and politiks? Perhaps you are crippled by toxic leaders and uninspired cultures and you know that there is a better way.

In this episode we're going to introduce you to the triggers of exemplary workplace behaviour at the neurological level. And we'll tap into four of these triggers that will #UnLock performance and #UnLeash Team Power. By implementing these four you'll see higher productivity, well-being, retention...

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LA 082: How to Make Your Work Meaningful or Meaningless?

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Even in the direst circumstances, people seek out their purpose in life: Viktor Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning 1

Jill superwoman shadow1.pngHuman beings have a deep, innate desire to find meaning in their lives. We want to matter. For some, it is to leave a legacy, to put a ding in the universe, or to enjoy the satisfaction of a job well done. For others, it is about success, reputation or recognition. For many who have found their true meaning, they know it's about others and less about self. And yet for...

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LA 081: What To Do When You Are Not Truly Appreciated (And Get Your Own Back!)

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I'm going to take a wild guess here that your work and your life has become more demanding.

Furthermore, I can be pretty certain that you feel under-valued.

I'll even dare to suggest that your pay is not the main issue in feeling under-valued, rather it's because it seems that no-one truly appreciates the value you deliver.

Something deep inside our pysche screams out to be appreciated. When we're not appreciated, then our satisfaction with life, with our job, with ourselves, is...

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LA 020 How to align yourself to getting things done—and enjoy success

LA Headers 960x640 (11)I've always been fascinated why some people seem to achieve incredible goals seemingly effortlessly, while others give up along the way, and others may as well have not set any goals because they have achieved very little.

Have you set yourself a SMART goal and still not achieved it?

Goal setting, we know is a powerful tool in helping us focus on a specific objective and put our energy and resources towards achieving it. But did you know that human beings align themselves to achieving their...

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LA 077: Let Go and Gain Control

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One thing that separates the calm and joyful person from the stressed and depressed is a useful balance something known as the locus of control.

Let Go and Gain Control podcast cover.jpgSomeone with an internal locus of control believes that he or she can influence events and their outcomes, while someone with an external locus of control blames outside forces for everything.

In general terms, if you believe that everything is beyond or outside your control, then you are likely to be more anxious, highly stressed and quick...

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LA 077: Selah!

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Every day you are busy.

Emails fill your inbox, some of them might even matter. Your todo list gets ticked off... or not. You attend meetings, deal with clients, chat with the boss, communicate with colleagues, deal with crises, handle problems, worry about tomorrow, think about yesterday, fret over a sick child ... and the list goes on.

If you are disciplined, you get to the gym or exercise at least 3 times a week and keep a wary eye on your diet, and make sure that you get enough...

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LA 076: Are Your Succeeding or Merely Surviving?

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When you ask someone what they want from life, most people will tell you that they want to be happy.

Push a little bit more and they will tell you they want to do something useful or meaningful, make a difference, leave a legacy, or fulfil a calling.

We call that succeeding.

That is, the activities we undertake every day provide us with personal happiness or satisfaction and have long term benefits for yourself and/or other people.

Some people are happy because they do something...

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